World Renowned Psychiatrist, Abraham Twerski, M.D, uses Evidence-Based Techniques to Repair Unwarranted Low Self-Esteem
Published 2/2023
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What you'll learn
Dr. Abraham J. Twerski will identify the causes of low self-esteem and how I learned to feel unworthy.
Dr. Abraham J. Twerski will explain the paramters of healthy self-esteeem
Dr. Abraham J. Twerski will teach you how to repair low self esteem
You will learn how to like yourself from the wisdom of Dr Abraham Twerski
You will learn how to build your own self confidence by working through life challenges
Requirements
No pscyhological course experience, tools or special equipment is necessary to take this course.
No extra materials or software are necessary to take this course.
No prior knowledege of psychology is necessary.
You just need an open mind and a willingness to improve your self-esteem.
Description
People often ask me, "Is it true that you've written ninety books? How did you find time, with your busy schedule to write so many books?" I tell them that I did not really write ninety books. I wrote one book, in ninety different ways.Almost everything I write relates in one way or another to the theme of self-esteem. I define self-esteem as a true and accurate awareness of one's skills, capabilities and limitations. A person can adjust optimally to reality only to the degree that one's perception of reality is correct. An incorrect perception of reality is a delusion, and someone who is delusional cannot possibly adjust properly to reality. For example, if a person who does not have a cent to his name but because he has the delusion that he is a millionaire buys expensive cars, clothes and jewelry, he is going to get into serious trouble. Or, if a person who does not know how to drive takes a job as a truck driver, he will soon be in trouble.I am an important part of my reality, indeed, the most important part. If I am delusional about myself, there is no way I can live a happy and productive life. If I happen to be bright but think that I am dull, if I am personable but think myself to be undesirable, if I am handsome and think myself to be homely, I am delusional, and my distorted self-concept precludes an optimal adjustment to life. Indeed, I believe that the overwhelming number of psychological problems that are not of physiologic origin are invariably due to low self-esteem, i.e., to a distorted self-concept in which a person grossly underestimates oneself.The feelings of inadequacy and unlikeability are very painful, and the unconscious mind exercises a number of maneuvers to shield a person from this pain. These maneuvers can result in suboptimal behavior and a variety of symptoms. I emphasize the problem of low self-esteem because I was a victim of this condition, but had no idea that this was so, just as any delusional person has no idea that one's perceptions of reality are incorrect. In retrospect, I did many things to protect my fragile self-esteem, things that were costly to myself and my family.I first became aware that I had a self-esteem problem at age thirty-eight. For three years, I had been director of a huge, 300 bed psychiatric facility with a very busy emergency room. If a nurse could not reach an attending doctor, I was called. Every other night I was on call to the emergency room. On a good night, I was awoken only five times; on a bad night, ten or more times.I had a vacation coming, and was desirous of getting away from an impossibly hectic situation. I sought a vacation spot that would allow me to do nothing other than vegetate. I wanted no sightseeing or activities. I finally decided on Hot Springs, Arkansas, which promised to allow me total rest.The industry of Hot Springs is horse-racing, which begins in mid-February. I reached Hot Springs in December, when there was nothing doing in town. Most of the stores were boarded up. It was the vacation spot I had hoped for.Having had low-back pain for years, I thought I would take advantage of the mineral-water baths, which were touted as producing miraculous results. I was taken into a tiny cubicle, and an attendant gave me two glasses of hot mineral water which was naturally heated deep in the earth. Then I was put into a tub of these magic waters, and the whirlpool was turned on.I felt I was in Paradise! No one could reach meâ€"no patient, no nurse, no doctor, no family member, no social worker, no probation officerâ€"I was beyond reach. And in this paradisical situation, I was bathing in nature's own hot-water. Who could ask for more?After about five minutes, I got up and said to the attendant, "That was wonderful! Just what I'd been hoping for."The attendant said, "Where are you going, sir?" I said, "Wherever the next part of the treatment is." The attendant said, "First you must stay in the whirlpool for 25 minutes."I returned to the bath, and after five minutes I said, "Look, I have to get out of here." The attendant said, "As you wish, but you cannot go on with the rest of the treatment."I did not wish to forego the treatment, so I returned to the tub for 15 minutes of purgatory. The hands on the clock on the wall did not seem to be moving.Later that day, I realized that I had a rude awakening. I had taken three years of constant stress without difficulty, but I could not take ten minutes of Paradise! Something was wrong.On return home I consulted a psychologist. He pointed out that if you asked people how they relaxed, one would say, "I read a good book," or "I listen to music," or "I do needlework," or "I play golf." Everyone tells you what they do to relax. However, relaxation is an absence of effort. One does not do anything to relax. What most people describe as relaxation is actually diversion. You divert you attention to the book, needlework or golf ball.Diversions are perfectly OK, but they are actually escapist techniques. Work and diversion are fairly healthy techniques. Unfortunately, some people escape into alcohol, drugs, food or gambling.In the cubicle at Hot Springs, I had no diversions: nothing to read, nothing to look at, nothing to listen to, no one to talk to, nothing to do. In absence of all diversions, I was left in immediate contact with myself. I could not remain there long because I didn't like the person I was with!Why are people using a variety of escapist maneuvers? What is it that they seek to escape? Very often it is from themselves. If, as was the case with me, they have an erroneous self-concept, they cannot stand being with themselves.People assume that low self-esteem is caused by parental neglect, abuse, comparison to other siblings, illness or failures. None of these applied to me. I had loving parents and a nanny who thought I was G-d's gift to the world. I was a chess prodigy, and achieved excellence in school that enabled me to graduate high school at 16. There was simply no logical reason for me to feel inferior, yet I suffered from low self-esteem and was not aware of it until the incident at Hot Springs.What may be the cause or causes of low self-esteem, the symptoms that result from it and what one can do to overcome it are discussed in this course. You may say, "I know myself thoroughly, and I know that I am unlikable or dull or unattractive or impersonal. Those are facts, and it's not my imagination."That's the way I felt even after being a psychiatrist for several years. If you find that you have any of the traits I discussed here, I invite you to take this course. Do whatever it takes to get over this.
Overview
Section 1: Beyond Self-Esteem: The Root of Self Esteem is to Discover the 'Self' Within You
Lecture 1 Beyond Self-Esteem: What is a Self and How Can I Create One?
Section 2: Section 2: Marriage and Parenting: How Self Esteem impacts Relationships
Lecture 2 How does low self esteem in childhood affect the marriage relationship?
Section 3: Teens and Low Self Esteem
Lecture 3 Preventative Strategies to avoid teens being at risk
Section 4: Happiness, Depression and Anxiety
Lecture 4 The Spirituality Deficiency Syndrome: How Self Esteem Interfaces with Depression
Section 5: Strategies to Repair Low Self Esteem
Lecture 5 Using Humility and Responsibility to regain a healthy self-image
Section 6: Like Yourself and Others Will Too
Lecture 6 Ancient wisdom to repair a sense of unwarranted worthlessness
Anyone who wishes to feel better about themselves and start liking yourself,Anyone who wants to stop the downward spiral of an unwarrnted lack of self worth.
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